The heart is where we wrestle with things. When experience, teaching, and values need to be integrated into life, it happens in the workshop of the heart. Information comes into our heads on a regular basis but much of it just stays there. Only when it moves down to our hearts does it become part of our lives.
Gratitude increases closeness in relationships. As you parent your children, look for opportunities to take advantage of gratefulness to draw closer to your kids. Give your children small gifts of love day after day. Be careful, though, that you don’t confuse the gratefulness principle with the overindulgence trap.
The early signs of a budding leader are often things like determination, resourcefulness, and persistence. Unfortunately, some children demonstrate these qualities in ways that create conflict and resistance. They often argue relentlessly, have their own agenda, are stubborn, and expect others to do what they want. Budding leaders are often known for their ability to see how others, including parents, should fit into their goals and objectives. Although those qualities will serve them well over time, the lack of maturity and character often makes these children difficult to work with.
One way to avoid emotional outbursts with our children is to understand the difference between tasks, problems, and conflict. Tasks are the normal things parents do each day. You get kids out of bed, make sure they’re dressed, provide breakfast, check that they have all the things they’ll need for the day, and get out the door. Then you’ll stop by the drug store to pick up the prescription and drop by the library to return the books on your way home. Tasks are the to-do list of a parent. They’re work but they’re expected. It’s part of the job.
- Parenting Insight For You To Use Now
- Sibling Conflict, Discipline Kids Separately
- Use Anger to Spark Creativity
- You Don’t Want to Raise a People Pleaser
- Make Mealtimes Fun
- Why a Bedtime is Important
- Teach Children to Take a Break
- Other Leaders and Authorities
- The Real Value of Learning to Obey
- What Cues Do You Give Your Children?
- Parenting Insight You Can Use Now - Part 4
- The Value of Listening
- Connecting Emotionally
- Bad Attitudes Come In Three Arenas
- Sibling Conflict: A Great Opportunity
- When Kids Want What's Not Best
- "Why do you do what's right?"
- Kids Love Heroes
- Parenting Insight You Can Use Now - Part 3
- View Your Family as a Team
- It's Like A Bonsai Tree
- Parenting Tip
- Parenting Insight You Can Use Now - Part 2
- The Wise Appeal